How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Is it possible for sociopaths to feel genuine remorse for their actions or thoughts towards others, even if they are skilled at hiding it from others?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Atheists who said that reading the Bible made them an atheist, how? Literally there are millions of people who read the Bible daily and still believe in God. So why say that? I mean unless you want to sound smart & edgy

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Would Donald Trump's reelection make the world more dangerous?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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What I need from you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Ask yourself:

Is Matt Gaetz qualified to be Attorney General of the United States?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.